Friday, May 30, 2014

Last letter to my baby girl


This is the last letter I wrote before Juliana's birth. When writing this, I was at the hospital in triage waiting to be admitted to the high risk unit to become induced the next morning. It's not much, but writing it helped calm some nerves. Thought I'd share this last touching moment:


May 23, 2014
12:44 am 


Dear Juliana,

  I've reached 38 weeks! And you have given me the big run around since the time I hit 28 weeks. You are something else girl. I'm now at the hospital getting ready to be induced meaning that you will be in my arms very soon! I've been dying to meet you but at the same time am worried about your well being. But I know that the God we serve has HIS powerful hands over you and for me. Everything will be ok. I love you baby girl. And I will see you soon!


Love Mommy!

Expect the Unexpected

 Many women today are very adamant about how they'd like their pregnancy and deliveries to go. Who can blame them? I know that I like to feel that I'm in control over things in my life. With my pregnancy journey, I learned a huge lesson, expect the unexpected!

At my 38 week appointment, what seemed to be going so well, took a turn to yet another emergency ultrasound. This time, to check Juli's position since it wasn't feeling normal to my midwife. 

I rushed off to a radiology group to get an ultrasound done for the results to scare people enough to send me to the hospital for an evaluation. From that evaluation, it was determined that induction must take place. 

Talk about an unexpected day! I'm thinking I have 2 more weeks to go but in reality, Juli will be here within the next 24-48 hours. I was scared, confused, and just overwhelmed by the information the OB was telling me. I kept telling her that I was there a month ago and they cleared me that Juli was fine and that she's just smaller in her stage of development. When the OB assured me that now at 38 weeks she's still measuring too small and that something is wrong. Possibly the placenta, where a baby gets all it's nutrients from, and they wouldn't know until it's out. She said I can continue to have a natural birth because a c-section is not on their mind unless something happens. As hysterical as I was, I asked them what would happen if I wait and let things go naturally, they tell me that Juli can possibly die if she stays any longer in the womb. With that being said, I let go and let God get me through this as I signed the consent form to induce. 

Everything after that, happened so fast! Induced at 9:30 am and Juli popped out at 4:54 pm. Talk about a short labor for a first timer. And Juli came out at 4 lbs and 10 oz 18.5 inches long. 



When they examined the placenta, the umbilical cord was not located where it should have been. All umbilical cords connect to the center of the placenta where all the arteries and veins that deliver the nutrients from mom to baby. In this case, the umbilical cord connected to the fetal membranes instead. This very rare condition was described to me as Velamentous Cord Insertion. The exposed vessels are not protected by whartons jelly, which is a jelly that protects the veins inside the umbilical cord, and are vulnerable to rupture likely resulting in stillbirth. So I understand why induction was pushed and why my baby girl was not growing properly. Everyone just kept telling me in amazement that my baby girl is a survivor to have made it to 38 weeks.


So, it goes to show you that no matter how hard you try to keep  up with schedules, write down do's and dont's on a birth plan, or even wanting to deliver with your midwife in a tub full of water, everything will happen the way God intends. I am blessed and happy to know that my baby girl is finally here, alive and healthy. A survivor! A miracle only brought to me by the divine intervention and the grace of God above!

Make sure to check for my upcoming article discussing the second half of my pregnancy called "With Great Anticipation Pt. 2"

Thursday, May 15, 2014

37 week update

My dream of becoming a mom will be fulfilled anytime now. With my due date only 3 weeks away, I grow more and more excited for what's in store for my little family. 

I have reached 37 weeks today and am now considered full term and able to give birth at the birth center with my midwife! I grow in excitement to be able to have the opportunity to have a water birth, God willing if everything continues to run smoothly from here on out. 

During my check up today, my midwife felt the baby's position and she is still head down and is still very low. I'm excited to know that my baby girl found her way and stayed in the correct position for all these weeks. Thanking God she isn't breech. I also learned that I am 25% effaced and 1 cm dilated. Still not quite there but it's all becoming more real. 

As uncomfortable as I am at this point, I'm hoping early labor picks up speed so I can get this show on the road.  I don't want to rush my baby girl but the anticipation of wanting this baby for so long and the whole process of this pregnancy, it just seems like I've been waiting forever! 

Symptoms I'm experiencing this week:

Increased heartburn: sometimes wakes me up out of sleep and keeps me awake. It's irritating!

Urinary frequency: I wake up 2-4 times throughout the night with a full bladder. 

Insomnia: Trouble getting comfortable and falling/ staying asleep 

Pelvic pressure: My little girl is getting very heavy to carry.

Braxton hicks: I'm noticing more of these and it's starting to get stronger like my menstraul cramps are. 

Sharp vaginal pain: my midwife says this is the feeling of the cervix making changes. 

The things mommy's go through! But it will all be worth it very soon!




Lactation 101

Last night, I was blessed to be able to consult with a lactation educator that made things very easy for me and came to my home! I'm new to the mommy world and needed some help in the breast feeding department. I've heard some of the benefits to breastfeeding versus formula feeding but last night, my lactation educator, Nicole, taught me so much more! I think this class should be high priority to moms who want to breast feed so you can learn how to prevent complications and know how to do it correctly. Nicole went through how to establish the first bond, the correct latch on and how to correctly redo a bad latch, how to know baby has had enough, knowing the cues of when baby is hungry before crying, pumping, hand expressing, benefits of breast milk vs formula, bottle feeding, and different complications. I was shocked to learn that lactation organizations and WHO recommend breastfeeding for the first 2 years of life to gain the most of the benefits! The longer a child is breast fed, the more benefits the child will get in it's life. Of course they say breastfeed exclusively for 6 months and weening off as they get older. 

Who would of thought there was so much to learn to just feeding your baby! I was amazed and pumped up (literally) to get started. If you're new to the breast feeding world like I am or just want to know how to properly do it, I definitely recommend hiring a lactation nurse or consultant and set up a class or private visit. It will be so beneficial. 

If you want to know the benefits I've learned, read on below :-)

Benefits of breast milk:

To the baby-
·         Many studies show that breastfeeding strengthens the immune system. During nursing, the mother passes antibodies to the child, which help the child resist diseases 
·         Respiratory illness is far more common among formula-fed children. In fact, an analysis of many different research studies concluded that infants fed formula face a threefold greater risk of being hospitalized with a severe respiratory infection than do infants breast-fed for a minimum of four months.
·         Diarrheal disease is three to four times more likely to occur in infants fed formula than those fed reduce the likelihood of ear infections, and to prevent recurrent ear infections. Ear infections are a major reason that infants take multiple courses of antibiotics.
·         Reduces the likelihood of ear infections, and to prevent recurrent ear infections. 
·         In developing countries, differences in infection rates can seriously affect an infant's chances for survival. For example, in Brazil, a formula-fed baby is 14 times more likely to die than an exclusively breast-fed baby.
·         Researchers have observed a decrease in the probability of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) in breast-fed infants.
·         Protection from allergies. Eczema, an allergic reaction, is significantly rarer in breast-fed babies.

Benefits to child later in life-

·         Infants who are breast-fed longer have fewer dental cavities throughout their lives.
·         Less likely to become obese later in childhood. Formula feeding is linked to about a 20 to 30 percent greater likelihood that the child will become obese.
·         Children who are exclusively breast-fed during the first three months of their lives are 34 percent less likely to develop juvenile, insulin-dependent diabetes than children who are fed formula.
·         Breastfeeding may also decrease the risk of childhood cancer in children under 15 years of age. Formula-fed children are eight times more likely to develop cancer than children who are nursed for more than six months. (It is important to note that children who are breast-fed for less than six months do not appear to have any decreased cancer risk compared to bottle-fed children.)
·         As children grow into adults, several studies have shown that people who were breast-fed as infants have lower blood pressure on average than those who were formula-fed. Thus, it is not surprising that other studies have shown that heart disease is less likely to develop in adults who were breast-fed in infancy.
·         Significant evidence suggests that breast-fed children develop fewer psychological, behavioral and learning problems as they grow older. 
·         In researching the psychological benefits of breast milk, one researcher found that breast-fed children were, on average, more mature, assertive and secure with themselves as they developed.

Benefits to mom-

·         Breastfeeding helps a woman to lose weight after birth. Mothers burn many calories during lactation as their bodies produce milk. 
·         Breastfeeding releases a hormone in the mother (oxytocin) that causes the uterus to return to its normal size more quickly.
·         When a woman gives birth and proceeds to nurse her baby, she protects herself from becoming pregnant again too soon, a form of birth control found to be 98 percent effective. 
·         Breastfeeding appears to reduce the mother's risk of developing osteoporosis in later years. 
·         Diabetic women improve their health by breastfeeding. Not only do nursing infants have increased protection from juvenile diabetes, the amount of insulin that the mother requires postpartum goes down.
·         Women who lactate for a total of two or more years reduce their chances of developing breast cancer by 24 percent.
·         Women who breastfeed their children have been shown to be less likely to develop uterine, endometrial or ovarian cancer.
·         The emotional health of the mother may be enhanced by the relationship she develops with her infant during breastfeeding, resulting in fewer feelings of anxiety and a stronger sense of connection with her baby.
·         A woman's ability to produce all of the nutrients that her child needs can provide her with a sense of confidence. Researchers have pointed out that the bond of a nursing mother and child is stronger than any other human contact. Holding the child to her breast provides most mothers with a more powerful psychological experience than carrying the fetus inside her uterus. 

Besides all these benefits, economically, you will be saving tons of money since breast milk is FREE! And since breast milk increases a babies immune response, that means saving money in the future for hospital visits too! 

The most amazing thing I've learned from my private class was that breast milk has many ingredients that formula just can't duplicate and that each time you breastfeed, the milk is always different! Your brain is the culprit that signals your bodies response to give the baby what it needs. So it's a process of demand. Baby needs something, brain senses and then sends the signal to your milk ducts to release that specific need into the milk supply. Tell me our bodies weren't created in such a unique fashion! Amazing. 

Here's a list my lactation nurse showed me of the ingredients of breast milk vs formula:



Thursday, May 1, 2014

"Top Three and Symptom Free"


I thought I'd share some of my favorite products out there that I've tried during this long journey that has helped in easing some of my pregnancy symptoms!


1. Preggie Pops

These come in a variety of different flavors like lemonade, ginger, lavender, and peppermint. I was skeptical to try them but once I gave them a shot, I was amazed at how well it helped. I'd grab a pop as soon as I started to feel nauseous and just kept it in my mouth until it almost dissolved! (I wanted to make sure I got every bit of it.) Before I even got halfway through, my nausea was pretty much gone. I started buying a couple packs at a time during my first and second trimesters! These were life savers. I give this product an A+++. There are different brands out there, but the specific one I used were Three Lollies from Babies R Us and it retails at $2.99.



2. Organic Badger Headache Soother

This product was recommended by a friend of mine. It comes in a small 1oz tin and its scent provides an aromatherapy which helps to relax you. You apply it to your pulse points and just allow the ointment to do it’s magic. I would actually massage it in and keep massaging for a few minutes. (The pressure and the ointment felt really good). I had a lot of headaches in my first trimester and I am not a fan of popping pills even though Tylenol is considered safe. I rather try other avenues first before taking medicine and this remedy worked for me.
I got this from Cracker Barrel in the gift shop. I don't remember the price but online it runs to about $6-7. 



3. Medela Maternity Support Belt

For my last trimester, my midwife actually suggested I wear one of these to help with the heavy load and keep the pressure off my back. I couldn’t tell the difference until I went to work one day without it on and I had a lot of pelvic and lower back pain by the end of the day. So wearing this product actually helped me relieve the pressure. Only thing is, if you're basically sitting down the majority of the time, you can definitely start to feel uncomfortable. I like to wear this product when I'm up and about. Thats when you have the most pressure anyway. This product I also got from Babies R us for $25.99.


If you are experiencing any of these common symptoms in your pregnancy, I definitely recommend you try these out and see if it helps you like it did me. 

Let me know what you think! 

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